In 2017, Andrea and Mika were matched through our community based 1:1 program here at Big Brothers Big Sisters of St. Thomas-Elgin. Over the next seven years, their quiet personalities grew into an unshakable bond—one filled with laughter, life lessons, and memories that will last a lifetime.
Andrea describes Mika as thoughtful, level-headed, and incredibly loyal—someone who truly cares about those around her. “Watching Mika grow into a confident young woman has been an honor.”
Mika, in turn, sees Andrea as the best listener—kind, patient, and always there. “She’s quiet, but so am I,” Mika says. “I feel like we’ve taken each other out of our shells.”
Their first outing truly set the stage for their friendship, a tubing event with our agency. Both were shy at first, unsure of what to say. But a light hearted moment broke the ice between them. Mika got her boot stuck, and Andrea tried to help her pull it off—only for Mika to fall off the bench in the process. By the car ride home, they were laughing together and talking nonstop.
For Mika, Andrea has truly been like a big sister. “She has my trust completely, and I know I can be 100% authentic with her,” she says. “There’s never been a time I’ve left a hangout not smiling—she’s family.”
Andrea has also learn
ed from Mika—how to listen, let someone else take the lead, and prioritize the relationships that matter most. Their bond has been about more than just fun; it’s been about showing up for each other, no matter what.
Andrea admires Mika’s confidence—”her ability to stand by what she believes in, whether it’s fashion choices or big conversations about the world.” And Mika too, has been inspired by Andrea.
“The idea of being a mentor one day is really nice,” Mika shares. “I’d love to become what Andrea is to me for someone else. She’s always been there, supportive and reliable. High school, or any of my teen years, wouldn’t have been the same without her. Thank you.”
As their match graduates, we know this is just the start of their journey. Mika and Andrea’s friendship will continue to grow, and we can’t wait to see what amazing things they both accomplish!